Tricia and Tim's Chinese Wedding

 

Tricia and Tim thoroughly enjoyed their Chinese Wedding

A few days after their church wedding, Tricia and Tim had their Chinese Wedding. What fun we had, and what an amazing experience for those of us who were seeing this for the first time.

The guests arrived first, and assembled outside the venue, ready to welcome them.

Tricia and Tim arriving for their Chinese Wedding

Two Chinese Dragons were there to meet them, and escort them into the venue

Once inside, they were able to greet their guests

Tricia was then hidden behind a screen, and Tim had to go through a series of tests

to show that he was worthy of his beautiful bride

In the first test, Tim has to eat sweets that were strung around his brother,

without touching them with his hands

In the second test, he had to knock pingpong balls out of his groomsmen's mouths

...then Tim had to declare his undying love for Tricia, and beg the girls to let her out.

Tim was great, and managed all his tasks so well, that he was reunited with his bride, and the wedding commenced.

The dragons visited every table during the magnificent 14 course meal

...including that of the bride and groom

The dragons' reward for all their work, was a lettuce.

To everyone's surprise, flames shot up from the table, as the dragon lifted the lettuce

 

One of the dragon's handed a scroll to Tim

Which he unrolled, in front of Margy, Bernard, Annie, and James

(I'm not sure what it said)

Next came the Tea Ceremony. Tim and Tricia had to offer tea to all their relatives. This is a most sacred ritual in a Chinese wedding. It is the bride’s symbolic introduction to the groom’s family. 

The first to receive the tea, were Tim's grandmothers, as the oldest,

and most important in the family

All the family present at the wedding were served tea, finishing with the married brothers and sisters of the bride and groom.

Even I received tea during the ceremony, being an aunt of the bride!

The tea ceremony over, the wedding party went from table to table to raise a toast all the guests, with a very rare, and expensive, brandy!

Gānbēi!

We ended with not just one, but the cutting of three cakes!

We all had such fun. What a night to remember! Thank you James and Annie for organising everything so well. I wouldn't have missed this for anything!

A Family Wedding in Cleethorpes, Lincolnshire

The Happy Couple

We were thrilled to be invited to celebrate another family wedding in England. We got to spend time with, and meet new members of, our ever extending family. Tricia and Tim were married in Corpus Christi Church, Cleethorpes, followed by a wonderful Wedding Breakfast at Oaklands Hall Hotel, Laceby.

Tricia looked beautiful as her proud father, Bernard,

walked her down the aisle.

We weren't allowed to take photos during the ceremony, but as soon as it was over, I whipped out my camera again!

Here, Tricia is signing the register...

...and here she is getting ready to leave the church, 

followed closely by her new husband, Tim.

The Newly Weds.

They left for the reception in this magnificent old car

At Oaklands Hall, the tables were beautifully laid, 

ready for the Wedding Breakfast.

During the speeches, Tim declared his love for Tricia,

it was very romantic!

The gorgeous wedding cake.

Every guest had a stack of lucky chocolate gold coins,

to bring them wealth

The main dish was a favourite of the bride and groom,

Sausage and Mash, with Yorkshire Pudding!

All the children were delighted to receive a traditional Chinese red envelope,

containing a £5 note.

Introducing the bride and groom, and part of our new extended family

The cutting of the cake

We all had such fun on that happy day, and wish Tricia and Tim every happiness in their new life together. However, this was not the end of the celebrations. I was lucky enough to attend their Chinese Wedding as well! Fabulous! More of that in my next post.

by Elizabeth Coughlan

Photography Trek to Uskudar, Istanbul

I love being a member of the Photo Club of Istanbul. Every trek takes us to a new and interesting venue. Although I had been to Uskudar many times, I had never really explored it properly. So when One of our members wrote, 

" I want to do a little excursion to Uskudar. Uskudar has some of the most beautiful mosques of Istanbul, but it’s also a very lively, somewhat conservative neighborhood, where elderly mustachioed men sit on benches the whole day discussing life (or so it seems ... maybe it’s rather football they discuss ...). "

I just couldn't resist!

The history of Uskudar, on Istanbul's Asian shore, goes back many centuries. Founded in 7th century BC by the ancient Greeks, it has had many different names through the ages. Originally named  Chrysopolis, the city became Skoutarion, and then Scutari, made famous by its British hospitals, and Florence Nightingale, during the Crimean War.

We came across this delightful old man, sitting outside the mosque

Today, Uskudar is a busy place, and is one of the most populated areas of Istanbul. It is noted for its mosques, said to number 180, so that's are where we focused or attention, although we only chose the oldest two. 

The first mosque we visited was the Yeni Valide Camii (or Mosque of the New Queen Mother), it was completed in 1703, by the mother of Sultan Ahmed III.

In the first courtyard of the mosque, we saw this traditional shoe cleaner.

In the inner courtyard these girls were waiting

As we strolled through the streets, we engaged with the locals enjoying glasses of tea.

Our next mosque was the famous  Atik Valide Külliyesi, commissioned by the mother of Sultan Murad III. It's position, at the top of a very high hill, made it difficult to photograph, as it is surrounded by buildings. This mosque, completed in 1583, was built by the famous Ottoman architect, Mimar Sinan, and included a dervish lodge, insane asylum, and soup kitchen.The interior of the mosque is exquisitely beautiful. Unfortunately, we weren't allowed to take any photographs - very frustrating!

I did, however, photograph the intricate pattern on the smaller, supporting outer domes.

A side view of the mosque

As we walked down the steep gradient to the port, we passed some interesting buildings.

We loved the painting on the side of this nursery school

Some evidence of original Ottoman buildings can still be seen

All in all, we had a great day. Istanbul is a fascinating city!

October 29 2013, Turkish Republic Day

The Bosphorus Bridge on Republic Day

October 29 is Republic Day in Turkey. It commemorates the formation of the Turkish Republic in 1923 by Mustafa Kemal Ataturk. Every year there are celebrations, but this year was extra special as it marked 90 years since that memorable day.

We went to a restaurant on the banks of the Bosphorus, with friends, to watch the spectacular display of fireworks on the Bosphorus Bridge. We were not disappointed!

The celebrations began with lasers sweeping the sky, as the lights on the bridge changed into different colours.

Then the fireworks began with a waterfall of fire from the bridge, 

accompanied by an explosion of brilliantly coloured fireworks above.

Suddenly, along the Bosphorus, between the bridge and the Maiden's Tower, 

small boats sent exploding balls of fire  into the air, lighting up the sky above us..

Then the whole sky turned red, as smoke and showers of sparks lit the sky.

Everyone cheered, as stars and crescents appeared through the smoke, 

to represent Turkey's flag.

Then came a burst of thunderous activity, as the whole sky seemed filled 

with the final burst of light and noise.

All this, followed by a delightful meal in good company, completed a very happy day.